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When Ratings Rule the Nation: How Media, Money, and Misinformation Are Dismantling Democracy

April 01, 20255 min read

“When democracy becomes a spectacle, the soul of a nation is sold for ratings. Reclaim the truth. Reclaim each other.” — Mary Coughlin

We are living through a moment that feels surreal—like watching a slow-motion car crash we can't look away from. The divisions are deepening, the stakes are rising, and the noise is deafening. But underneath the spectacle lies a deeper, more dangerous story: our democracy is being unraveled, not just by fringe ideologues, but by a system that profits from our division.

This isn’t about left or right. It’s about what happens when capitalism, media, and political ambition collide—and the soul of a nation is caught in the crossfire.

The Profit Motive Behind the Political Chaos

Capitalism, in its unchecked form, doesn’t care what sells—only that it sells. And in today’s hyperconnected world, fear, outrage, and division are some of the most profitable commodities. Media outlets, tech platforms, and political operatives have learned to monetize our attention by feeding us content designed to spark anxiety and keep us endlessly reacting.

As PBS’s forum on disinformation and democracy makes clear, misinformation isn’t just a byproduct of dysfunction—it’s a deliberate strategy to destabilize truth and trust.

Cable news doesn’t just report on conflict—it often amplifies it. Social media algorithms don’t show you what’s true—they show you what’s most likely to keep you scrolling. And political leaders who stoke division for personal gain find themselves boosted by both systems.

Meanwhile, the public is left exhausted, fragmented, and disoriented.

The Consequences: When the Spectacle Becomes the System

Let’s not sugarcoat it: the United States is in the throes of democratic backsliding. From efforts to overturn election results to attacks on public institutions and judicial norms, we are witnessing active attempts to dismantle democracy in real time. And it’s often covered like entertainment—debated like a sport, framed like a game.

As PBS NewsHour reports, social media is fueling extremism—not incidentally, but algorithmically. The more inflammatory the message, the more traction it gets.

And the results are devastating:

  • Eroded Trust in Institutions

  • Mainstreaming of Extremism

  • Widespread Psychological Trauma

  • Disorientation and Disconnection

This isn’t just political—it’s personal. It hits the nervous system. It deepens historical wounds. It hijacks our attention, our energy, our ability to dream and plan and connect.

So What Can We Do?

We can’t afford to opt out—but we also can’t afford to keep playing a rigged game. The answer isn’t more outrage. It’s more grounding. More healing. More soul-centered clarity.

Here’s where we begin:

1. Reclaim Reality

Develop critical media literacy. Be intentional with what you consume and share. PBS’s exploration of polarization reminds us that trusting reliable information is a first step in reclaiming a shared sense of reality.

2. Name the Threat Without Feeding the Beast

Not all views are morally equivalent. There is a difference between political disagreement and authoritarian ambition. We must name the danger clearly—without becoming consumed by it.

3. Build Beloved Community

Healing happens in community. Create spaces for honest, brave conversation. Root in trauma-informed practices. And connect across divides in ways that are built on shared values, not shared ideology.

4. Ground in Soul, Not Spectacle

Breathe. Journal. Walk. Make music. Create something. Find a rhythm that’s yours—not one dictated by the news cycle. As NPR reminds us, protecting your mental health in times of political intensity is essential—not selfish.

So Where Do We Turn?

It’s easy to feel overwhelmed. When the noise is relentless and the headlines blur into chaos, it’s tempting to tune out entirely. But this moment demands something else: not just awareness, but anchoring. Not just resisting the spectacle, but reclaiming the story.

That starts with seeking out truth—not the loudest version of it, but the most thoughtful. The kind that’s rooted in fact, committed to context, and offered with care. Below are a handful of trusted resources to help you (and those you love) begin again—grounded, informed, and empowered.

Grounding in Truth: A Soulful Starter Kit

If the world feels heavy, fast, and chaotic—you’re not imagining it. You’re just awake.

These resources offer clarity and care. Use them to steady your footing, expand your understanding, and pass truth forward:

May these help you cut through the fog and find your way back to what matters most.

We’re not powerless. We are the counterforce.
Let’s not just resist.
Let’s reimagine.

With fierce love,
unwavering clarity,
and a soul that refuses to look away,

Mary

P.S. Invitation to REIMAGINE:

P.S. If you’re ready to move from reflection to reimagining, I invite you to join the REIMAGINE Movement—a gathering space for healing, action, and collective courage. It’s where we root in truth, resist the spectacle, and dream out loud about what comes next.

💡 Learn more and take your place in the weave:
👉 REIMAGINE Hub link

#WeTheFuture #REIMAGINE #HealingIsPolitical #TheGreatWeaving #CaringIsEssential

Mary Coughlin, BSN, MS, NNP, is a globally recognized leader in Trauma-Informed Developmental Care and the founder of Caring Essentials Collaborative. With over 35 years of clinical experience and a deep passion for nurturing the tiniest and most vulnerable among us, Mary’s work bridges the art and science of neonatal care. She is the creator of the Trauma-Informed Professional (TIP) Assessment-Based Certificate Program, a transformative initiative designed to empower clinicians with the knowledge, skills, and support to deliver exceptional, relationship-based care.

Mary is also an award-winning author, sought-after speaker, and compassionate educator who inspires healthcare professionals worldwide to transform their practice through empathy, connection, and evidence-based care. As the visionary behind the B.U.F.F.E.R. framework, Mary helps clinicians integrate love, trust, and respect into every interaction.

Through her blog, Mary invites readers to explore meaningful insights, practical tools, and heartfelt reflections that honor the delicate balance of science and soul in healthcare. Whether you’re a seasoned clinician, a passionate advocate, or simply curious about the profound impact of compassionate care, Mary’s words will leave you inspired and empowered.

Mary Coughlin

Mary Coughlin, BSN, MS, NNP, is a globally recognized leader in Trauma-Informed Developmental Care and the founder of Caring Essentials Collaborative. With over 35 years of clinical experience and a deep passion for nurturing the tiniest and most vulnerable among us, Mary’s work bridges the art and science of neonatal care. She is the creator of the Trauma-Informed Professional (TIP) Assessment-Based Certificate Program, a transformative initiative designed to empower clinicians with the knowledge, skills, and support to deliver exceptional, relationship-based care. Mary is also an award-winning author, sought-after speaker, and compassionate educator who inspires healthcare professionals worldwide to transform their practice through empathy, connection, and evidence-based care. As the visionary behind the B.U.F.F.E.R. framework, Mary helps clinicians integrate love, trust, and respect into every interaction. Through her blog, Mary invites readers to explore meaningful insights, practical tools, and heartfelt reflections that honor the delicate balance of science and soul in healthcare. Whether you’re a seasoned clinician, a passionate advocate, or simply curious about the profound impact of compassionate care, Mary’s words will leave you inspired and empowered.

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